Feb 14 2009
Single on a Day For Lovers
As we all know, today is St. Valentine’s Day. So what’s a single girl to do on the day for lovers? Love myself, that’s what.
I actually haven’t had a Valentine in about three years, and trust me - I never miss a beat! Back in the day my friends and I used to celebrate as The Lonely Hearts Club when there wasn’t a guy special enough around to share such holidays with. I actually had thoughts of revamping the club and creating a West Coast version.
Earlier this week Giselle and I were talking about what we (The Panel) would do this weekend. Partying and brunch aside, I suggested we be each others Valentine and have a group dinner.
I love Giselle! Though fine with the idea of the girls hanging and having fun, as we always do, she let me know that she could care less about it being Valentine’s Day. “Every day is a day to express love.” Indeed it is.
To that point, we should all certainly take a little more time to love ourselves until that next lover comes along.
So today once my gift of pampering is complete, I’ll likely be a guest on Myles Miller’s blogtalkradio show (again - 5 pm EST, 2 pm PST). After that the girls are gearing up for a night on the town with not a thought of having a Lonely Heart in sight.
Fill free to substitute the word “you” for “me” as you love yourself like no one else can.
Kisses!
Haute
*sigh* We are more and more alike by the moment…scary
Hello,
I like your attitude, very much. I especially like the whole idea of “Love myself”. I like to treat myself to something a few times a month. It could be as little as a prized cigar or as big as some new electronic toy. I love myself more than I used to. I have a mate (now). I had to learn to love myself first. I believe that I can’t have more until I learn to appreciate what I have. The only sketchy part about your rambling was the last line that was something like “until someone else comes along”. I feel it is even more important to show myself some love now that I am with someone. If I don’t that strong woman will walk all over me. Not because she is being mean but, because she is loving herself, as well. The relationship thing IS NOT EASY. It can be worthwhile. I see you on the right track.
Jay T.
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