Comments on: Dating: The Code of Conduct

By: sallen77

sallen77 — Tue, 17 Jun 2008 14:06:38 +0000

my story went much like grt8day’s. met a really interesting guy and we discussed the female giving random guy her phone number bit… in the end he gave me his phone number. i waited a few days to call (and by our second date i knew he was the guy i wanted to marry). six years later, we’re married, and i still have the slip of paper he wrote out his number on =)

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By: grt8day

grt8day — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 13:05:22 +0000

Although I am married, I can recall that I did not give my phone number out to my husband. I told him I did not give out my number to people I hardly knew. So, he gave me his, and after a few weeks I finally gave him a ring. Worked out great for me! We have been married for 16 yrs.
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By: laurenr

laurenr — Sat, 14 Jun 2008 22:40:51 +0000

I never really had a problem calling a guy although to be honest I always hated talking on the phone so I just never really did it that much. :OP

By: jen

jen — Fri, 13 Jun 2008 04:23:14 +0000

Do you text? Or only respond to his text?
If he calls once and you miss the call and callback and he doesn’t answer, do you try calling again or do you assume he got your message? Do you have set hours for fielding calls? Do you have caller ID? Which number do you give out - home or cell or both? Do you call him back at work? Do you receive calls while at work? So many things to think about nowadays!

By: blondiewrites

blondiewrites — Thu, 12 Jun 2008 21:58:07 +0000

I have had it work both ways. He would, I would call and eventually we just moved in together. Now most of the time I wish I hadn’t called. LOL

By: reginaavalos

reginaavalos — Thu, 12 Jun 2008 02:57:21 +0000

I’ve never had any problem being the one to call, but if I’m the one always calling then there is a problem.

Gina
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By: beprepared

beprepared — Thu, 12 Jun 2008 02:06:01 +0000

Eh, I’ve never had any problem calling. I don’t think either party should be the one always making that move. I don’t like putting all control of communications in the other person’s court.

By: dianae

dianae — Wed, 11 Jun 2008 22:53:55 +0000

I agree totally with this. I never call men either. I think it makes a woman too needy if she’s always doing the calling, and besides, I want to see how much a guy likes me so I wait until he calls me.

This also works because it always seems like I have ‘better things to do’ than wait by the phone for his call.

-Diana
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